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親愛的老公,


今天不是紀念日,  也不是情人節 ,  只是一個特別想念你的日子,   真是對不起我昨晚又做了"壞事" ,  你成了我的出氣筒了   , 為了這樣 ,  所以今晚我就使出我那像鄧麗君般的歌聲 , 唱首歌補償你好了~~


Dear husband,


Today is not anniversary.   Today is not Valentine,either.   


It's just a speical day that I miss you so much.   


I am sorry that I did something horrible last night.  


You became my garbage cane of anger again.  


Because of this, I will sing a romantic song to you by my tender voice


as a Taiwan famous singer tonight.


 



這是我和美籍洋老公 (我女兒拍攝的) 


This is me and my husband which was taken by my daughter.


 


情海       殷正洋


凝視著你 幸福從未如此的靠近你我心懷
原來愛是那麼美那麼好 經過這些我終於明瞭
我們相約愛到老夢到老 我永遠是甜蜜的依靠................


The sea of love


When I look at you, I have never felt the happiness is so closed to you until I find you.


I finally understand love is so beautiful and sweet after so many years.


Let's love and dream each other until we get old.


I am always your sweet support.


 


 


我們相識也超過三年多了 , 在婚前我們是有些擔心兩個來自異國不同文化是不是會有些衝突 ,  還有女兒和我的適應問題 ,  加上我們兩邊的家人又那樣擔心不看好 , 你曾經多次流著眼淚想放棄我們的感情,  但我始終未曾放棄 ,因為我知道你就是我單身十年的終結者 ,沒有人比你更愛我了 ,我可以了解你的不安和困惑  ,也因為這樣 ,你知道嗎? 更讓我明白你不但是個負責任的人而且那樣看重婚姻,  在我講出理性的分析後,  你也被我說服   ,還開玩笑說我也可以當律師了


 


We have known each other for more than three years. 


Before we got married, we had some worries if we could have some conflict in the


culture and the adjustment problem of my daughter and me


because both of us came from the other country. 


Besides, both of our family were too worried to support us. 


You would like to give up our love with full of tears in your eyes many times. 


However, I never give up our love from the beginning to the end.  


Because I know you are the person who will end my ten years single life.


I trust nobody loves me much more than you in this world. 


I can understand your worries and hestation.  But, do you know?


Because of this, I understand more about you that you are not only a responsible man


but also serious about the marriage. 


After I made a rational analysis, you were convinced by me and you made a jok on me


that  I also can be a good lawyer.


 


 


在你下定決心要和我情定終身時, 又面臨美國政府對未婚妻簽證的審核和面談非常嚴格 ,又等了一年,  這樣漫長的兩地相思  , 你還是耐心在等待我和女兒的到來,  每天你為了和我見面 就很早起床 , 早上六點開啟電腦 與我在yahoo 即時通見面  , 還會無論你身在地球上的何處都會給我一通電話 , 只為了聽一聽我的聲音,  這兩年為了來看我 ,  總是美國和台灣兩地跑,  也會幫我安排我和女兒的機票, 讓我們常來拜訪你,  我在台灣的期間, 每個月至少都有一把你託人送來的鮮花, 因為我怕小蟲,子 所以你特別交代放在辦公室,  讓我工作的時候 ,也能放鬆心情心


When you made the decision to be engaged in me, we also faced the strict examination


and interview of fiancee visa from U.S.A. government.  


So, we waited for another one year.


In spite of  missing each other in two different countries,


you were still very patient to wait for me and my daughter.


In order to meet me,


you always got up earlier to meet me at 6:00AM on yahoo instant messenger.  


No matter where you were in any place of the earth,  


you always called me just for hearing my sweet voice. 


You often took airplane between  Taiwan and U.S.A these two years


in order to meet me face to face. 


Besides, you also arranged the air tickets for me and my daughter to visit you


in Seattle many times.


When I was in Taiwan, you asked somesone to send me fresh flowers at least once one month. 


Because I was afraid of bugs, you espeically asked the person to deliver to my office


not my home.  I felt relax when I was in the office.


 


終於2006年 我們的簽證通過了,  我和女兒也遠離了我們的國家, 來到美國 完成我們的夏威夷婚禮 ,我們成為一家人~~


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Finally, we got the finacee visa in 2006.  I and my daughter left our country for U.S.A. 


We got married in Hawaii.   We became a family. ~~ 


 


可是不久我卻也發現女兒進入的青少年叛逆期 , 不同的意見造成 "擦槍走火"的場面也慢慢出現,  從未人父的你, 一定是相當為難  ,特別是青少年的父親, 對於這點, 我是真的很抱歉 ,也很感謝你的體諒,  你對我的女兒總是視如己出的對待, 我想有一天她會體會的 , 你每天工作需要那樣費心思, 還是每天教她的功課,  加熱早餐給她 , 親切地問他學校的情形 , 讓我很感激你來為我分擔我原有十年來的單親重擔


 


However, before long, I found my daughter started  in the troublesome age of teenager. 


There were more and more differenet opinions between me and my daughter


causing a lot of problems. 


You has never been a father, so I believe you must be very difficult


espeically as a teenager father. 


For this, I really feel so sorry but I also appreciate for your consideration. 


You always treat my daughter as your nature daughter. 


I think she will understand some day. 


You work so hard everyday but you still need to teach her homework ,


make breakfast for her and ask her about school tenderly every day. 


I appreciate so much that you share so much responsibility


for my original ten years' single mother burden.


 


 



 


我很感謝老天的安排 ,讓我遇見了你 , 我十年的等待是值得的,  如今所有的孤單都隨風飄散, 你我溫暖了彼此 ,為了感謝你那樣地對我好 ,我會更努力煮好吃的健康料理,  保持動人34-24-34的身材 , 多做無油煙料理  ,不做黃臉婆 , 安排浪漫又整潔的家和花園, 當然還要更溫柔的對待你  ,我永遠是你甜蜜的依靠,就像圖中的綠頭鴨夫妻一樣~~~~


愛你的老婆 ~~ 


I really appreciate God let me meet you.  My ten years' waiting is valuable. 


Now, all of loneliness will be gone by the wind. 


You and I warm each other.  In order to appreciate your kindness to me,


I will work harder to make delicious and healthy food, keep sexy shape (34-24-34),


make more soot free food and make a romatnic and clean home for you. 


Of course, I will treat you more tenderly. I am always your sweet support.


Just like the green head duck couple in the picture.  I love you so much.


 


Sincerely yours,


Phoenix


 



 



 

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